I don’t understand what’s happening, what set things off this time.
But I know it’s not supposed to be this way.
No one should have to live like this.
I’m scared all the time, even in my own home …
especially in my own home.
I’m constantly making checklist after checklist, feeling like a prisoner, being treated like a child.
Or, worse - like someone who is hated.
I walk on eggs shells,
always tense and on guard, bracing for what might come next.
I know I’m not crazy. I’m not making it up. I’m not blowing it out of proportion.
This is Real.
I don’t know what to do.
I can’t just pick up and leave,
that’s too dangerous,
too unpredictable.
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His voice comes to me in the dark, relentlessly whispering the familiar accusations, replaying moments I’d rather forget.
"You really screwed that up…"
"You should have done better…"
"Why didn’t you…?"
"If you hadn’t…"
"How could you be so stupid?"
It’s true you know. It was your fault.
You brought this on yourself.
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I'm A Victim?
I’ve tried so hard, gone out of my way, done everything I could to make things right. I know I haven’t been perfect, could’ve done better.
I really tried to make the relationship work.
But nothing I did was ever right or good enough. And everything I said always ended up being the wrong thing.
How could this have happened to me?
To ME?
Abuse happens to other people, people I don’t know.
You were supposed to protect me!
How have I ended up as a victim?
I don’t understand…
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